Why Aren’t You Taking Your Shot?

If you’re waiting to feel ready, you’re already behind.

Let me tell you something personal—

because theory is useless without scars.

If I didn’t take a leap of faith and get on a plane to China,

none of my last 10+ years would exist.

No international career extension.

No playing into my 40s and 50s.

No getting paid to coach at the highest levels.

No working with professional teams.

No Chinese National Team access.

No touring Asia.

No seeing the world from inside the game.

None of it.

Here’s How Unromantic It Really Was

I didn’t have a master plan.

I thought about it on Monday.

I was on a plane by Friday.

No certainty.

No guarantees.

No safety net.

I didn’t know where I was going.

I just knew staying still was worse than moving blind.

That was the leap.

And It Changed Everything

What started as a shot in the dark turned into:

  • Top-level professional basketball

  • National team exposure

  • Coaching opportunities

  • A decade of global life experience

  • Asia in all its beauty, chaos, and lessons

All because I took the shot.

Not because I was fearless—

but because hesitation felt like death.

Let’s Be Clear: Not Every Leap Paid Off

I’ve taken plenty of shots that didn’t work.

Contracts fell through.

Situations collapsed.

Plans failed.

Money disappeared.

Confidence got tested.

But here’s the part nobody tells you:

I’m still standing.

And those “failures”?

They created the stories, the memories, the wisdom, the perspective.

You don’t regret the leaps.

You regret the chances you never took.

Basketball Already Taught You This

You miss every shot you don’t take.

But somehow you forget that rule when it comes to:

  • Your career

  • Your business

  • Your content

  • Your voice

  • Your life

You hesitate.

You overthink.

You wait for certainty that never arrives.

What Are You Actually Afraid Of?

Failure?

I failed more times than I can count—and I’m still here.

Judgment?

People judge you anyway.

Looking foolish?

Standing still is far more embarrassing than trying.

The Real Truth

Life is built on mistakes.

Without mistakes, there is no success.

Without risk, there is no momentum.

The universe doesn’t reward potential.

It responds to action.

So I’ll Ask You Again

Why aren’t you taking your shot?

Why are you hesitating?

Because I promise you this:

The leap you’re scared of today

will become the story you’re proud of tomorrow.

Take the Shot

Get on the plane.

Post the work.

Launch the thing.

Make the call.

Some shots will miss.

Some will change your life.

But none of them happen

if you never pull the trigger.

Shoot.

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